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Tallahassee.com “Respecting Parents… what’s that?”

http://blogs.tallahassee.com/community/2013/10/26/respecting-parents-whats-that/

In today’s modern comedy shows, we see the image of what family is or what people think it should be. In these shows, the dad is a goofball who never seems to get anything right and the mother is an emotional control freak who rules the home. There’s humor in these scenarios, but they lack to show the Truth.

From my education in social sciences under the political science department, I can ramble off the political correctness of gender roles with the understanding that traditional families are not the most common or effective if you view the meaning of family from a scientific perspective. I understand that I am very blessed to have a functional family who is still together. The meaning of family according to the dictionary: a group consisting of parents and children living together in a household. By that definition, it sounds like there’s a few people stuck together under a single roof. I would like to suggest a slight modification to this definition. Family is a group of people who are affiliated by marriage, birth, legalities, and co-residence who respect each other.

What does it mean to respect each other? As a 31 year old bachelor without children, I will not address showing respect to your spouse or kids. I will talk about  respecting parents. I could mention the secular understanding that respecting yourself is one way to honor your parents, but my understanding of respecting your parents is to learn from them. They spent time teaching us proper ways of how to communicate, socially interact, and make decisions. Their interest is that their children are healthy in mind, body, and soul. It would be disrespectful to disregard that time and act like a fool.

Ask yourself the next time you are doing something foolish such as lying, gossiping, driving home buzzed, or sitting in a tattoo parlor is this respecting myself, my family,… my parents?  Our fourth commandment tells us to honor our parents. This is the only commandment that comes with a promise… you can find it in Exodus 20:12, “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long…” God wishes us to live long… with wisdom!

Benjamin Horbowy

God texted me! He told me to “Relax”

God TEXTed me during church and told me to put my phone away.

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God speaks to us all the time. He is with us everywhere. He may or may not be one of your texting friends, so where do you hear His voice? And, how do you hear God?!

To hear God: make yourself quiet, put away distractions, and believe in prayer. Most importantly, LISTEN with an OPEN heart.

If your heart isn’t open, I suggest forgiving the ones who have hurt you. Once you give them love, you can heal from the pains and be open to receive love.

It could be very difficult for a social media addict to listen when they have a “smart phone” distracting them constantly. How do you you separate yourself from digital community? Please leave suggestions or Bible verses in the comments below.

#DiosEsAmor

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Bishop mentions Twitter and Social Search from Pulpit

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At the CELEBRATE FAITH 2013 Convention at the Emerald Coast Conference Center in Destin Florida, Bishop Gregory Parkes delivered a touching message during the homilie. For the 1st time, I’ve heard the mention of twitter from the alter. For me, this was affirming to hear; I’ve been spending much of the last three years working on twitter software developing techniques of “social search”. He went on to say that we as Christians are called to seek those in hiding or have not yet found the Light and Truth in their lives.

Before mass, there was a priest who asked the room, “by show of hands who went to Catholic Schools before 1960?” and three quarters of the room raised their hands. To them, the message about finding people most likely doesn’t apply to them with twitter, but to me his mention of twitter validated my efforts. Earlier in the week, I posted on facebook “Unless I spread God’s message and good, none of the social search engineering I do is worth anything.” I should broaden that statement: unless I deliver God’s message, nothing I do is worth anything.

Recently I’ve developed a social search engine that enables me to automatically build communities of similar interest. For the alpha and bata testing, I have over 400 twitter accounts engaged building an array of micro-communities. I’ve made one for Saint Maximilian Kolbe powered by my social search software that’s currently searching for key conversation topics that apply to his ministry. Most of my other accounts have a higher success rate than the Saint’s twitter page, but the bishop reminded me if my mission is successful if I only reach one person’s heart.